Crush is a phase which either develops later in to a mere like or a long lasting love.
Like and Love are two words starting and ending with same characters but they play significantly different character in one's life.
One such topic entitled 'Friendship->Crush->Love->Friendship.'
Have we ever thought common scenarios which develop the feeling called love for someone?
1] Imagine first scenario where a guy and gal enter their college life as both are teen agers and
have grown watching Romantic movies and always fantasizing about how their love would be
and they get introduced by some means and suddenly they start communicating on regular intervals and meeting often and then suddenly they get addicted for each other and they name this as 'LOVE'....
2] Second scenario is a guy and gal know each other from childhood and later when they come to a teen age they rename their friendship to 'LOVE'...
3] Third and interesting scenario is when close friends of the guy and a gal convince them such that they fall for that illusion and both start believing that they are in 'LOVE'...
The above stated are most common ways that people develop crush/love for some one and then the real movie commences...
When the feelings go same on both ends and Love reaches its final destination called marriage then it actually termed as true love...
When the feelings go same on both ends but somehow both part ways that time magic called love is termed as an illusion...
But when feeling remains constant on one end and other end has same feeling but only being friends?
In this case one should value the friendship and respect their decision and always save them in special corner of heart and let the time decide on the same....
So in all the cases it begins with a Friendship...Thus if somehow it did not work and you had to call it off you should not just exit but you should be mature enough to restart the relation where it started i.e. with friendship...
A well said quote says : 'If two past lovers still call remain as friends then they are either in love
today also or they were never..'
It's not necessary to be in relationship with some one because you like and love them a lot; if your feelings are true for some one then you can feel the same even being friends with them and as the journey which commences from friendship if it ends on friendship then there always lies a positive hope that one fine day it would develop in to love for sure......
and the positive sign being you come to know actually what's your kind so you should always be thankful to Almighty for introducing some one who actually made you miss ya heart bit and paused the moment in today's fast moving world -:)
Thus cherish the moments of Friendship no matter whether that ship takes you through the journey from Crush to Love........
-------Particular stories on this to come in future posts....!
